It’s not often I find myself talking about violence. But tonight I was given the answer of something I have been wondering for a very, very long time in my life. I will never have to wonder about it ever again.
For as long as I can remember I have had this “memory”. It is from when I was a very young boy, maybe 6 years old or so. I believe my family was at a Pizza Hut together in or near Battle Creek, Michigan where we were visiting my Grandma Sailor. The only visual I have from this so-called memory was a crime scene in the parking lot, where there was yellow tape and a body. Quite a terrifying thing really.
But I never knew. For about 20 years or more that vision came to my head once in a great while and I didn’t know if that was something I actually saw, a memory I construed, or perhaps something I developed and remembered seeing in a dream or movie once.
For some reason I never wanted to ask my parents. I felt they’d think I was crazy (which is partially true). All I ever wanted to know if it was true or something I made up in my mind.
Well tonight, my parents drove through town and stopped in for a few minutes. They were in Battle Creek over the weekend visiting my grandmother. While there, they actually heard gunshots fired late at night on the block of my grandmother’s house.
And then…
My mom said, “When you were younger there was a time we had to shield you and your brother’s eyes from a crime scene in Battle Creek so you didn’t see the dead body.”
I KNEW IT! It wasn’t just my imagination. It was true! I can finally put to rest a thought that has plagued me for two decades. Now I can move on to the next unsure memory.
To the City of Battle Creek, please forgive me for putting the town in poor light with violence in this story, it is not my intention. I have always enjoyed my time there and will be there many more times to visit my dear grandmother.
I recently spent a week in the Lower Peninsula and one stop was to see my good friends of Curve Detroit. Charlie (I suggest follwing him on twitter @CharlieCurve) and I had lunch at Moose Preserve in Bloomfield Hills. On the way back I was honored to be featured in one of Charlie’s spontaneous video posts. Charlie and the folks at Curve do some awesome work and continue to impress me.
Charlie and I found a friendship during our first phone conversations. I believe it was my voicemail that caught his attention as it started out by saying, “Hello, hello!”. Little did I know that Charlie users the same greeting.
Needless to say I’m quite flattered by Charlie’s comment:
If we think of this as Michigan [holds up hand to show Lower Peninsula] that’s only half the story. The other half of the story is Bugsy Sailor.
I have never thought of myself as being the other half of Michigan, but I will gladly take the complement, thanks Charlie. And Charlie is right, one of the greatest benefits of social media is a network of people who are being helpful.
Talking about “enabling the dreams of others” has only been a recent discovery when asking about the biggest thing I learned from my 50-state tour. I continue to learn things from my trip well after the fact, this being one of them. It’s something I have found more and more passion for.
Hope you like the video. There will be more on the topic of “enabling” coming soon.
Bugsy Rocker first started back in 2001. I bought the domain name bugsyrocker.com in 2002. Since then it has seen at least three major redesigns (check out the web archive bugsyrocker.com, though some of it is embarrassing).
Throughout college I had a pretty extensive blog of my personal thoughts and happenings in life. After that my blogging was all about the adventures I had on my 50-state tour. And in the last year all of my blogging has been about the Upper Peninsula.
It’s been a long time since I’ve had a personal blog and it’s time to bring it back. Quite often I have thoughts about my profession or educational background (advertising, sociology, web development, photographer, etc). Other times I find myself with opinions about hockey, snowboarding, travel, and more.
With all of my projects and the growing number of people following whatever it is I do, it just made sense to give everyone a way to follow what I’m up to, what’s going on behind my projects and in my head or what I’m going to be up to next. If nothing else it’s a bit of therapy for me to get my thoughts out there.
I first launched Daily Fruit on October 8th, 2001. It was always on my BugsyRocker.com domain name, and then as I traveled the country it was on the Hometown Invasion Tour website. And after a crazy year I had to take a short break of it.
Well in 2008 I brought it back, with a brand new domain name that it will have for a very long time, fruuit.com.
On April 5th, 2009 I’m happy to say that I wrote my 2500th Daily Fruit entry. It has come a long ways in nearly eight years.
I’m taking some pride in this. It has been a lot of fun and has given me a way to look back at a lot of memories. If I do it for another seven years I’ll hit 5,000 entries.
Some of my favorite entries…
April 18, 2009 - it’s not that i don’t like ketchup, it’s just that by putting it on it’s one more step between deliciousness and my mouth.
June 12, 2008 - if i ever meet someone who’s missing both their thumbs i’ll measure their nose and tell them, if you had thumbs they would be this long.
January 25, 2009 - holy cow, this is the finest spoon i’ve ever used, the width, the concaveness, the strength, it just fits my mouth to perfection, i must find a secret place to keep it.
And if you’re still a little confused about what exactly Daily Fruit is after reading this entries, you can start with the about page. And yes, some of it is just corny, even though it’s one of my least favorite vegetables.